5 Blogging Tips No One Tells You At First

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I haven’t been in the game as long as others but before I started LWSS all I did was goggle tips on beauty blogging. You have so many questions and thoughts running through your head that it can all be overwhelming. You either have a thing for it or you don’t, it’s that simple. The amount of effort put in shows through your work and If your blog looks crappy chances are your traffic will be crappy. I try not to focus too much on the numbers aspect of it because I truly love blogging, but to see a crazy spike in your views makes you feel a sense of accomplishment. As far as all the “freebies” it comes with the job, what matters is you stay true to yourself and what you think about a product. I would never jeopardize the integrity of my blog just to review something for the sake of, not my M.O. and never will be. So for all the noobs or established bloggers I bring these tips to you . . .

1. Schedule! Schedule! Schedule! – I can’t stress how much easier this makes it on you! I find that when I think of what I want to write, schedule them on said dates, visually it makes it realistic as to how busy you’ll be. Maybe you only want to post every other day or even twice a week but that all depends on what other things you have going on in life. Do yourself a favor and get a planner, journal or notebook. If you’re a stationary freak like me, keep one in every corner of the house!

2. Nap Time & Bed Time – I have two little bugs that are the ages of 7 & 3. It’s super hard to find time to shoot photos, type up posts, clean, cook, play and all the good things moms do. My son is in school of course so that’s a help but my little one is home with me all day so no break for me! She has a scheduled nap time, that’s when I am able to take some photos or plan out posts for the week. I’ve definitely learned how to multi-task after having kids, a part-time job, the boy and a house. If they’re up while I’m working I’ve got two handy helpers! Typing at night is a bit more relaxing when you can get comfy and know you don’t have to get up to run to the potty with the little one!

3. No Busy Bee-ing! – I know that some people love bows and polka dots which is completely fine but always remember that less is more! I hate looking at blogs that have too much going on with their backgrounds and photos, it distracts from the actual content. A nice clean look is a bit more mature and a lot more appealing to the eye. I started out with a mint background and some polka dots that I wasn’t happy about in the end so I changed it. I feel that the layout has to balance itself out and shouldn’t be too busy, it can be tacky at times!

4. Accept The Good & Bad – People will be people and you’ll always have someone to spread some hate, what can you do about it? Shit. You can’t please the world nor are you meant to so continue to do what you love and all you can do is give yourself the necessary tools to become a better blogger everyday. You need to have a tough exterior and learn how to click, block, erase. Exposing yourself to other people in different parts of the world has its perks as well so it isn’t all bad, I’ve met some wonderful people through this experience. That right there is what counts, your faithful viewers! P.S – btw I love you guys!

5. Twit-Sta-Book It Up! – Social media believe or not plays a major role on getting your blog noticed! You can interact, share links and post updates to give your viewers a little insight of who you are as a person. I love talking to my viewers and when things are shared it makes it easier to talk to new ones as well! You start building relationships with other bloggers and really engaging in the blogging community which I think makes you a better blogger. It’s also nice to know you aren’t the only one obsessed with that new Nars Palette that just released, yea we’ve all been there!

Everything is trial and error, eventually you’ll find what works best for your lifestyle. Be confident, patient and never give up. I’m hoping one day this all leads to what my goals are and I’m determined to get there. I’m also realistic of my chances of being recognized and that’s where being patient comes in. I’m proud of my work and it should be the only thing that matters in the end!

  • ltbeautyblog

    Great tips! I am trying to schedule more posts this year. I completely failed at that last year.
    http://www.letstalkbeauty.co.uk

    • lipstickwithsomesunshine

      Thank you! It’s hard to keep up but you’ll get there eventually!!! I took me some time to get my schedule down packed!

  • playingwithfashion

    Thank you for sharing some tips with us!
    http://playingwithfashion.com/

    • lipstickwithsomesunshine

      anytime!!!

  • Miz Lulu

    I’m a graphic artist and i personally like my busy background i made myself to go along with my banner ๐Ÿ™‚ However everyone is own to their opinions! I just hope you hate looking at my blog all because of my background xD Other than that i really enjoyed this post! and your blog <3 Until next time xo

    • lipstickwithsomesunshine

      Oh no there is nothing wrong with your blog I feel there is a right way to do busy and a wrong cuz I’ve seen some pretty busy sites! Thank you for all your support !!!

      • Miz Lulu

        Well i am relieved to hear! I was sad for a moment because your blogs is one of my favorites that i follow & really enjoy reading! xo

        • lipstickwithsomesunshine

          Aww thank you dear!!! Your design is nice and clean love it!!

          • Miz Lulu

            Thanks love, keep on keepin on! xo

  • beautybyheathr

    great post Tammie! I can’t agree more with the scheduling tip!

    • lipstickwithsomesunshine

      Thanks dear!

  • Manda

    Totally agree with everything! I just typed up a post about being authentic and the inspiration came from being frustrated with growth. Truly think being genuine is the best tip ever.

    xo, Manda
    http://www.iceonthegold.com

    • lipstickwithsomesunshine

      Thank you!!!! It’s the only way!

  • Fatimah

    Hi Tammy!! I am fatimah from fatimahearts!! Just started following you on Instagram and bloglovin a month back and i am already in love with your blog and your ig!! I am also a mom and I too blog at night after my daughter is already asleep..I will be graduating soon so I hope to focus more on my own blog..thanks a lot for the tips..aspire to be a better blogger someday.. I just knew that you love Vivianadoesmakeup too!!

  • Alms โ–ณ (@a1meida89)

    Great post, you really shared some great tips. Personally I will improve my blog post planning, been neglecting it for way too long ๐Ÿ˜€

  • Celina

    I totally agree with these tips, especially with the scheduling! It’s so much easier!
    xx
    Celina | The Celution | Bloglovinโ€™

  • Louise

    This is such a useful post, especially for a blogging newbie like me! Thank you. X

    • lipstickwithsomesunshine

      Anytime : ) !!!

  • Jessica E

    Thank you for posting this, I found you through Corrie from dizzybrunette3 who is a really lovely girl. You have shared brilliant tips, sometimes I feel like my blog goes unnoticed and then when I receive comments I am overjoyed that people have spent time out to read and type their thoughts. I have made my layout quite clear (one of those who does have a polka dot background though oops!) and I can schedule better now. I probably need more social networking as I don’t own a twitter or facebook page yet! ๐Ÿ™‚ x

    Essence of Jess

    • lipstickwithsomesunshine

      Aww thanks dear! I get super excited to respond to comments too! Oh and there is nothing wrong with polka dots lol mine at the time were just terrible but I fixed it! Just keep pushing forward and you’ll get there eventually! Thanks again for stopping by!

  • Apolline Cornuet

    So helpful thank you ! I couldn’t agree more with 1, 3 and 5 !

    • lipstickwithsomesunshine

      Thank you!!

  • Ana Leote

    Thanks for sharing these tips ๐Ÿ™‚

    xx
    http://analeote.blogspot.pt/

    • lipstickwithsomesunshine

      Your welcome!!!

  • Kimberly Collado

    Thank you so much for these tips. I just stumbled upon your blog and I am loving it already.I have just started blogging and you inspire me to continue doing it. xoxo-Kimberly
    http://strawberryicekim.blogspot.com/

    • lipstickwithsomesunshine

      Thank you so much!!! xoxo

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    • lipstickwithsomesunshine

      Thank you for the feature!!! I’m flattered!!!

  • lifechangesii

    First time here. Great tips.

    • lipstickwithsomesunshine

      Aww thank you so much!

  • Jasmine Hart

    I just stumbled upon your blog and I love it! Thank you for the great tips! I’ve only been blogging for a few months and posts like this are always super helpful~!
    http://www.JasmineHearts.com

    • lipstickwithsomesunshine

      Yay I’m so glad, Thank you xoxo

  • Twirly Skirt

    I just started so this was helpful. Thank you! I enjoy your blog and pics! xo
    twirlyskirt.com

    • lipstickwithsomesunshine

      Anytime dear!! Thank you!!!

  • hazel

    I’ll definitely take your advice on scheduling blog posts! And wow, now I really admire you for being a good multi-tasker, juggling blogging and your kids! You deserve a pat at the back! ๐Ÿ™‚

    • lipstickwithsomesunshine

      Aww thank you so much!!! I’m so glad I was able to help!

  • Simi

    Absolutely love your blog. I recently launched my blog and this post was very instrumental as I put my blogging plan together. Thanks ๐Ÿ™‚
    http://www.raindropsrosesblog.com

  • Ms Maxwell

    love this blog and great set of tips! ta very much ๐Ÿ™‚ x

    justmsmaxwell.com

    • lipstickwithsomesunshine

      thank you!

  • makeupfoodie

    Your point no. 3 (keeping things clean and easy on the eye) really hit me that mine is too busy, I have to admit I like background as it makes it personal but it is very dark at the same time. Please please please if you could take out a moment from your busy schedule and check out my blog makeupfoodie.com and give me your honest opinion I would be UTTERLY GRATEFUL! xoxo

  • Edward Chamberlain-Bell

    Great post. Especially about scheduling. Too many aspirant bloggers become one-time bloggers because they overlooked how much work is involved in creating a quality blog. Itโ€™s very easy to write about the first thing that comes into your head but editing it for the readerโ€™s enjoyment also takes time. Iโ€™ve neglected my blog slightly to focus on building up a portfolio of great articles that I can publish on a consistent basis.

    Ditto the social media aspectโ€“ even great writers need to understand the importance of social media sharing and also search engine optimisation. I once presented a workshop about the basics of social media to a group of journalists who were mortified when I suggested they also start blogging. Evidently, one does not study journalism to become a blogger, but they eventually came around and agreed that blogging is their best marketing tool as an online portfolio.

  • sheninejoon

    I’ve pretty much just started blogging as well and it is tough and so rewarding. It’s nice to see so many people in the same boat. Glad I stumbled upon your blog ๐Ÿ™‚

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    Hi there would you mind stating which blog platform you’re using?
    I’m planning to start my own blog soon but
    I’m having a hard time choosing between BlogEngine/Wordpress/B2evolution and Drupal.
    The reason I ask is because your layout seems different then most blogs and I’m looking for something completely
    unique. P.S My apologies for being off-topic but I had to ask!

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  • escorte Paris

    Hiya! Quick question that’s completely off topic. Do you know how to make your site mobile friendly? My website looks weird when viewing from my iphone4. I’m trying to find a theme or plugin that might be able to correct this problem. If you have any recommendations, please share. Thank you!